SHOW NOTES – Q&A 3, Season 1
Your favorite Panty Kickers return to answer the age old question for crazies: “Is it okay to snoop on your romantic partner?”
Carolyn says:
- Take a look at yourself to see if your partner is truly untrustworthy or if YOU are just a person with trust issues. If it is the latter, do some work on yourself before taking on a new partner, it’s not fair to drag an honest person through your hangups.
- If it’s the former: follow your gut. If you fear your partner is up to something, they probably are!
- Ultimately, if you have the impulse to snoop, you can pretty much guarantee there are some issues in your relationship that need to be examined. It’s much better to start with honest conversation rather than invading your partner’s (well-deserved) privacy.
Becca says:
- IF you are going to snoop, you better be prepared to take what you find and use it to exit the relationship when it, inevitably, can’t be explained away.
- Give your partner the right to an interior life that isn’t all about you. Great relationships are built on two individuals choosing to be together.
- Use your words. If your partner is doing something you don’t like or acting shady just talk to them about it. It’s always best to have a relationship where open and honest communication is the foundation.
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See you next week for Episode 4:
WILLPOWER!
xoxo Carolyn and Becca
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