Q&A 24 – How Do I Unlearn Monogamy?

SHOW NOTES – Q&A 24, Season 2

Brit writes: “Hi B+C, I’m learning that traditional relationships (monogamous single partner relationships) are not going to work for me. Unfortunately, years of being raised in a society that pushes this type of relationship on us all keeps popping it’s head up when I try to explore new styles of relationships. Do you have any suggestions on ways I can unlearn and break down some of the expectations that come along with these learned traditional relationship behaviors?” 

Carolyn + Becca say:

  1. Do what makes YOU happy and don’t worry about anyone else!
  2. Find like minded people to share your thoughts with and pump them for information on how to make it all work.
  3. Find someone whose freak flag flies in tandem with yours, or do a little soul searching to find what you are comfortable paying to get your own slice of freedom.
  4. Always be upfront and honest with your partners about what the “ideal” scenario for you would be.
  5. Go toward your joy!
  6. Emphasis to friends and family how happy and sane you are, if you are!

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See you next week for a full length episode: Casual, Exclusive, Real

xoxo Carolyn and Becca