Q&A 23 – Is it okay to ghost someone you just started dating?

SHOW NOTES – Q&A 23, Season 2

Devon writes: “Dear panty kickers I’ve been dating this guy for a few months but I don’t think it’s going anywhere. I want to break it off with him, but since we’ve only spent a short amount of time together do I owe him an explanation? I want to just ghost him but I hate when that happens to me! How do I end something that didn’t even begin? Help!!” 

Carolyn says:

  1. Don’t do it!
  2. There is a difference between the “slow fade” and straight up ghosting.
  3. Consider how many intimate moments you have shared with each other before you decide how to end the relationship.

Becca says:

  1. Don’t do it, it’s rude!
  2. Be part of a new community of people who will hold others accountable for crappy online dating behavior.
  3. You never know when this person may pop up in your future, be wise.
  4. Follow the golden rule, do unto others…

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See you next week for a full length episode: Boundaries

xoxo Carolyn and Becca