Q&A 21 – What do the Panty Kickers think of non-monogamy?

SHOW NOTES – Q&A 21, Season 2
Brian writes: “Dear Panty Kickers, what do you think of non-monogamous or alternative couplings?”

Carolyn says:

  1. If it makes you happy, do the damn thing!
  2. It may not be totally realistic to be only with one person for the rest of your life
  3. Managing your expectations around monogamy may allow to release the choke hold you have on your relationship or partner
  4. Make sure you are in agreement about the relationship you are in, open relationships need parameters to be successful

Becca says:

  1. Millennials are more open to different types of relationships, which may be responsible for an 18% decline in divorce: https://time.com/5405757/millennials-us-divorce-rate-decline/
  2. Talk to your partner about your expectations around monogamy, and also be a person your partner can approach if they make a mistake
  3. To expect your partner to never have desire for anyone else is completely unrealistic, be open to their desires, it is sexy to not be threatened
  4. Listen to your body, it will tell you if the situation you are in is not working for you!

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See you next week for a full length episode: Managing Expectations

xoxo Carolyn and Becca